Words are like blank sheets of paper. The paper will remain blank until we put something on it. They do not have meaning until we give them meaning. We take advantage of meaning. For instance, a chair is a seat, especially for one person, usually having four legs for support and a rest for the back and often having rests for the arms. Someone else who doesn’t understand our interpretation of a chair may think a chair is a type of footstool. The chapter was talking about meanings. Different things may mean different things to different people. To a florist, flowers may be beautiful natural creations, but to me it’s just another plant with a foul odor.
I agree that people have shared definitions for things, like in the United States, we know that a stop light has 3 colors (red, green, and yellow) and we know what each color means. But when a person send a message, their message has its own meaning, but that doesn’t mean the receiver is going to understand what the sender meant. The receiver is going to understand the message in their own way. And with sending messages, sometimes the message gets misunderstood and we have to correct it saying, “That’s not what I meant.” If a person was trying to really understand, they would look for confirmation by asking questions. Misinterpretations comes from words we choose to represent the ideas we have in our heads. There are so many words in the world, you have to select the best words to explain the message you’re trying to send. So it can be the sender’s fault, also, if the receiver doesn’t understand the message.
The reason I like writing is because you can hide messages and challenge your reader to attempt to understand what you’re trying to say. Not only do writers do this, songwriters, musicians, artist, and actors. We do our art to communicate. We use it to send a message for others to understand. And even if they do not understand, they have been exposed and will probably investigate the message they have been to expose to so they can attain an understanding.
